A Hand Approaches. You Flinch.The Micro-Step Generator for the Scapegoat Child
You sit rigid at the dinner table. Aunt’s palm hovers near your shoulder. Your stomach drops before contact.
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Micro-Step Desensitization Session
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The Micro-Step Generator helps you take tiny actions toward feeling safe when someone reaches out. What part of a touch feels hardest for you right now?
Why You Need a Micro-Step Coach
COPYMIND offers the Micro-Step Generator — a personalized plan that breaks desensitization into tiny, doable actions.
Controlled Exposure
Each step is small enough to keep your nervous system safe. You won’t be overwhelmed.
Build Trust
Slow, steady progress teaches your body that touch can feel calm.
Personalized Pace
Your AI twin adapts each step to your comfort and pace.
The Pain of Flinching at Touch
You see a hand reach out. Your chest tightens. You pull back before skin meets skin.
As the scapegoat child, every brush of clothing against your arm triggers echoes of blame. Your heart hammers. Your hands shake.
Friends don’t understand why a hug feels like a threat. You swallow the shame and pretend it’s just nerves.
Why the Micro-Step Generator Works
Desensitization fails when you rush. You need micro-steps so small your body barely notices.
Each tiny action rewires your fight-or-flight. You practice touching a table edge, then your own arm, then a soft cloth.
Your AI twin tracks your wins. No judgment. No blame. Just a steady path back to safety with real-time feedback.
Frequently Asked Questions
Everything about your micro-step session
Yes. All sessions are end-to-end encrypted. No humans will see your entries.
You deserve safety. Small steps won't steal hours. This is your self-care, free of guilt.
Not at all. Your AI twin listens without bias or judgment. It’s just you, your story, and a plan.
Yes. Research shows gradual exposure rewires threat responses. You build safety muscle by muscle.
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